Posted in Family gist, Marriage, Reflection, Relationships on 07/20/2010 04:17 pm by Tope

Last week, i was having a chat with a guy who’s been married for a few years. He works on the island and lives on the mainland (meaning he spends most of his active time at work) and our “gist” centered around the implication(s) of friendships with single ladies at the same workplace. He seemed to have his own strong opinion backed by his stance on having undue closeness with those ladies. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Relationships, Values on 03/19/2010 05:56 am by Tope

It’s been a long while i posted an article. Today, we’ll be talking to the unmarried guys and ladies and addressing practical ways we can abstain from sex till the day we say, “I DO”. I’m sure someone will find this really useful. Here are a few tips from me to you:
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Posted in Marriage, Relationships, Values on 11/09/2009 10:49 am by Tope

A few weeks ago, i was at a talk show, and i featured as a relationship coach. The topic was “love across the ocean, how practical is it?” I sat down among the panelists as questions were thrown at each of us one after the other. As we proceeded, i was asked a question which i found very unclear; and this is because the concept of relationship and marriage were used interchangeably. I wondered why the mix up, as i was quick to make a clarification. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Developmental, Marriage, Relationships, Values on 09/16/2009 09:37 am by Tope

I thought seriously as i read the story of this very young couple. It seems to be appearing commonplace to find this kind of scenarios in today’s world. Marriage seems not to be sacred anymore, but a function of convenience or the lack of it. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Reflection, Relationships, Values on 08/06/2009 09:55 am by Tope

Yesterday night, i watched a movie titled “Not easily broken” with the lead Actor being Morris Chestnut; and of course, as you rightly guessed from the title, it was about marriage and its possible attendant issues. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Developmental, Marriage, Reflection, Relationships on 07/27/2009 07:22 am by Tope



It’s indeed been a while. I can’t begin to state the things that have been my major preoccupation of late, but in all, God has given me grace and capacity to handle them all. Today, i’ll talk to the ladies, because i’ve come to discover that they’re the more influential gender than the men, right? Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Relationships, Values on 06/10/2009 10:29 am by Tope

Hello guys, it has indeed been a while. The server that hosts my website was hacked on Monday and i had this article ready but couldn’t post it. Thank God it’s been rectified. There’re some thoughts which have been on my mind for a while and i’ll write on one of them today. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Developmental, Marriage, Relationships, Values on 04/24/2009 04:35 am by Tope

In my last two posts, i did say that i’ll be sharing tips and buttressing them with practical examples – both personal and non-personal. I think i’ll just share one or two thoughts today. Enjoy… Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Developmental, Marriage, Relationships, Values on 04/20/2009 05:52 am by Tope

Hello my peeps! How was the weekend? Mine was packed and i have a full head now…..Anyways, i had to tell myself that it’s been over one week ago that i posted an article and i thought to share one or two thoughts with you. For a while now, we’ve been looking at the need to “shift” within our marriages in order to have a great one. Read the rest of this entry »