TOPSIE

A few weeks ago, i was at a talk show, and i featured as a relationship coach. The topic was “love across the ocean, how practical is it?” I sat down among the panelists as questions were thrown at each of us one after the other. As we proceeded, i was asked a question which i found very unclear; and this is because the concept of relationship and marriage were used interchangeably. I wondered why the mix up, as i was quick to make a clarification. Read the rest of this entry »

I thought seriously as i read the story of this very young couple. It seems to be appearing commonplace to find this kind of scenarios in today’s world. Marriage seems not to be sacred anymore, but a function of convenience or the lack of it. Read the rest of this entry »

Yesterday night, i watched a movie titled “Not easily broken” with the lead Actor being Morris Chestnut; and of course, as you rightly guessed from the title, it was about marriage and its possible attendant issues. Read the rest of this entry »

It’s indeed been a while. I can’t begin to state the things that have been my major preoccupation of late, but in all, God has given me grace and capacity to handle them all. Today, i’ll talk to the ladies, because i’ve come to discover that they’re the more influential gender than the men, right? Read the rest of this entry »

Hello guys, it has indeed been a while. The server that hosts my website was hacked on Monday and i had this article ready but couldn’t post it. Thank God it’s been rectified. There’re some thoughts which have been on my mind for a while and i’ll write on one of them today. Read the rest of this entry »

In my last two posts, i did say that i’ll be sharing tips and buttressing them with practical examples – both personal and non-personal. I think i’ll just share one or two thoughts today. Enjoy… Read the rest of this entry »

Hello my peeps! How was the weekend? Mine was packed and i have a full head now…..Anyways, i had to tell myself that it’s been over one week ago that i posted an article and i thought to share one or two thoughts with you. For a while now, we’ve been looking at the need to “shift” within our marriages in order to have a great one. Read the rest of this entry »

It’s fast becoming the norm to hear the statement, “marriage is hard”. I will like us to look at it in a more fundamental way. I don’t think marriage is hard at all. Marriage is a function of the personality of the people in it. If two people who have serious issues marry each other, of course, they have set themselves up for bouts of “operation fire for fire”. If you have sound character or you’re working on developing good character, your marriage will be much easier. It’s not as hard to have a good marriage as it is to build oneself to become a person deserving of a good marriage. There are couples who desired a good marriage and gave it the commitment required to have one, they have been stretched, their patience tried, and their homes are better for it. Read the rest of this entry »

Hello people, how has the week been? Mine has been a mix of interesting events. For a couple of months in my church, we have been looking at the subject of Character, and interestingly, this sunday we treated the subject, “Marriage and Character” and it was a fantastic message. I made up my mind to write on some of the things talked about and to share some of my own thoughts and experiences as well. Read the rest of this entry »

Hello my peeps, it’s been an exciting week for me. It sure pays to take time off regularly. I’ll be posting an article on something i read a while ago and it’s dedicated to mothers. Mothers are soft and tough, tender and strong, and as we celebrate mothers’ day, i dedicate this to all mothers and intending mothers. You’re the reason why we are here. Read on: Read the rest of this entry »