2009 has been an amazingly peculiar year. Filled with hopes (both dashed and realized ones), challenges, fun, lots of intrigues as well as loads of learnings. I’ve learnt more this year about business than i have in my past 4yrs in the world of business. I’ve had ups, downs, highs and lows; but in all, am grateful to God. Read the rest of this entry »
Hello all and compliments of the season to you. Here’s detailed information on an opportunity i share with people on a daily basis. It gives a stepwise way of going about how to become a part of holidays and cash. Here goes: Read the rest of this entry »
It is taking so much for me to start writing this article again because shortly after i finished writing the full article, i lost it because my system went off just before i saved. I trust that i’ll be able to write much more from my heart than i did in the last article now…. Read the rest of this entry »
I have tried several times to start and finish this article; hopefully, i will do this time. I’ll be sharing some of the thoughts in my mind about women today. Read the rest of this entry »
I’ve been focusing so much on marriage these past few posts that i have left out the singles, but i guess you also had a lot to learn from the posts as well. So, today is singles’ day 
It is very obvious we’re in a world where there is so much pressure, and being a teenager these days as against being a teenager in my own days (which is not a long time ago) are entirely different worlds. Schools have even added to issues by sparing the rod; these days, any child who is disciplined too much in school will have her parent visit the school asap to sort out the issue with the teacher. Things like these have affected the quality of teenagers we have today. I just could not resist the urge of stating that by the way. It just shows that there’s a general breakdown of values and issues have to be approached with urgency.
Apart from the regular hormone gymnastics that characterize teenage years and young adulthood, the media reinforces all kinds of atrocities that it’s fast becoming fashionable but i’ll like to address a
fundamental issue pertaining to the ladies
I have spoken with a number of people and read about people too. There are some ladies who complain that they have been in wrong relationships all their lives. Some others say, it just seems that every guy they
meet wants to have their way with them and move on. If as a lady, this is a normal, regular occurence, you need to look within and ask yourself some very important questions, “Who am i attracting? What types of people am i attracting? What messages am i sending out? What is my body language communicating? What is my cleavage-showing top communicating? What do i want? If you have gotten to a point in which you’re convinced that all men are smooth talkers, liars and cheats, then you need to check yourself, check what you’re feeding your mind with and the kind of people who have the greatest influence on your mindset and lifestyle. Check what the society has sold to you and you have bought. Then you need to begin to drop them and take on the truth.
Some years ago, i attended a cousin’s wedding outside town so we lodged in someones house. We ladies were in a large room. So, in the evening, some of the ladies were gisting about their many “exploits” and i laid on my bed and watched. A particular lady who seemed so full of herself narrated an experience she had. She had discovered much earlier that there was a guy who liked her. Then, a while after then, they had a
mutual friend who was getting married. So, they attended. Shortly after they had settled in was the bachelors’ eve. Knowing that the guy was around, she said she dressed to kill; she made the neckline of her
dress so low that more than the cleavage was out, and she ensured that the guy saw her, then she began to taunt him, she flirted around with other guys, danced with other guys and ended the gist by saying the guy was almost drooling as she really showed him! My question is, what was her goal? Was it not just ok to have said no if the guy had asked her out? How will you be friends with a person like that and expect things
to magically be perfect?
Everyone is “attractive” – what we attract is what differentiates us. Our association is an indication of who we’re attracting. For me, i have this to say, there are men who value and have chosen to live by God’s instructions above what seems prevalent in the society. They’re committed to a life of that is ruled by God’s standards. Same with women too.
So ladies, don’t send the wrong signals and wonder why guys seem to be after you. Guys are mainly moved by sight. Don’t take a chance, don’t just wear what you feel like, your life’s more than how you feel per
time, remember you’re always sending messages and attracting people. It’s about your life, your future.
The mind is a battleground. Several thoughts fight to become the predominant thought within a man’s mind. Every major milestone in a person’s life is the result of a battle that already took place in the mind. Every achievement, success, failure, defeat is a result of a battle in the mind. Read the rest of this entry »
I always never like to be tribalistic but rather, to see every tribe as unique. For every tribe in Nigeria, there are strong, positive characteristics as well as negative ones. There’s something so strong about the Ibo tribe, and that’s their business acumen. You can literally follow a young Ibo guys growth in business as he puts in dedication and a lot of commitment to see it grow. Read the rest of this entry »
Hello friends, i’m sure we all had a restful holiday. This week was a rather short, but exciting one for me. I’d like to write on a topic i find very important at every stage of life because there are always challenges we need to battle, always. Read the rest of this entry »
I just finished reading a book titled, “The Little Book of Business Wisdom” by Brian Banashak and i’ll be sharing some learnings in the next few posts. The first i’d like to share is the Businessperson’s 23rd Psalm. Here it goes: Read the rest of this entry »
In developed countries, it is illegal to scold/spank children, either verbally or physically, so children insist on having their way whenever they want to. Parents get frustrated once they get angry with their children and can’t do anything about it. But in Africa, “it is not so”….lol. Read the rest of this entry »
