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Welcome!
Welcome! Happy New Year folks! This is already coming late; but i guess it’s...
THE WORLD AT YOUR FEET?
THE WORLD AT YOUR FEET? It’s indeed been a while. I can’t begin to state the things that...
Women’s Lesson Time!
Women’s Lesson Time... It’s interesting how overtime, things our parents used to do or believe...
SHIFT
SHIFT Hello people, how has the week been? Mine has been a mix of interesting...
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LOOK UP Hello Friends, i’ll like to conclude my last post by sharing a thought...
Women’s Lesson Time!

Women’s Lesson Time!

It’s interesting how overtime, things our parents used to do or believe in seem outdated and out of fashion now. Their ideas seem archaic and ‘funny’. However, you would agree with me that certain values and principles they hold so dear still remain valuable and timeless. After i had an interesting experience with someone close to my parents’ age, i decided to share it with my readers and let me know...
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Don’t indulge him!

Don’t indulge him!

Several years ago, i had a chat with an elderly woman who i respect so much; she was already a grandmother then. I was close to getting married then and we just got talking about marriage. Along the line, she delved into roles of each partner in the marriage. The first statement she made shocked and got me defensive. She said, “men can become spoilt when indulged; whatever you won’t take a decade into your...
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I AM THE MAN 2

I AM THE MAN 2

The part two of the article that addresses inferiority complex in men has taken so long to come up. We’ll be taking a look at how it presents in a marriage relationship and how it can be handled, and possibly, resolved. Before then, let’s do a brief overview. Inferiority is a feeling that is common to every individual. At some point in time, you may have felt inferior to a friend, a colleague, or even a sibling....
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Welcome!

Welcome!

Happy New Year folks! This is already coming late; but i guess it’s better late than never I look back at 2010 with mixed feelings but the feeling i choose to give a higher hand is a feeling of gratitude. Last year, i was involved in a few things; some of which worked, and some which did not. But in all, am extremely grateful for the highs and lows, and am expectantly excited about 2011….more importantly...
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I AM THE MAN!

I AM THE MAN!

“The greater the feeling of inferiority that has been experienced, the more powerful is the urge to conquest and the more violent the emotional agitation”. Alfred Adler Men, ever since they are boys are usually told by the people that surround them: fathers, mothers, uncles, etc that boys don’t cry, boys are meant to be tough, boys shouldn’t display any sign of emotion, boys are men and should always...
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Can she have it all?

Can she have it all?

It’s interesting that after a long break, I’ll have to write on a topic that’s the flip side of my last article. What actually prompted the writing of this article is also very interesting. While i was in the university, i belonged to a clique of lovely focused ladies. We all met in school but had connecting points that brought us together….we were all in the same department and class and shared common values and...
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The Marriage Cage

The Marriage Cage

Marriage is every lady’s dream. It’s the icing on the cake, especially when a lady spent the earlier years of her life looking forward to the day when she will own her own home, be a content and fulfilled wife and woman. The thrill is usually higher when the man is relatively settled – has a good job, a nice ride and apartment; the lady feels secure and with absolutely no worries on her mind. Shortly after...
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Ladies, if only you knew……

Ladies, if only you knew……

Thanks all for the responses you gave on my last article about sheep and shepherds (pastors and church members). I’ll like to, in this short article, address the ladies and not limit it to them and the Pastors alone. Babes and sisters, do you know why that Pastor, that choir master, head usher, protocol guy, fine christian guy is able to violate you? It’s because you’re ignorant and don’t know better...
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