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Facts on Women 2
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IS IT YOUR BUSINESS?
IS IT YOUR BUSINESS? Last week, I spoke with, and counselled a young lady who had been fraught...
I AM THE MAN!

I AM THE MAN!

“The greater the feeling of inferiority that has been experienced, the more powerful is the urge to conquest and the more violent the emotional agitation”. Alfred Adler Men, ever since they are boys are usually told by the people that surround them: fathers, mothers, uncles, etc that boys don’t cry, boys are meant to be tough, boys shouldn’t display any sign of emotion, boys are men and should always...
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Can she have it all?

Can she have it all?

It’s interesting that after a long break, I’ll have to write on a topic that’s the flip side of my last article. What actually prompted the writing of this article is also very interesting. While i was in the university, i belonged to a clique of lovely focused ladies. We all met in school but had connecting points that brought us together….we were all in the same department and class and shared common values and...
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The Marriage Cage

The Marriage Cage

Marriage is every lady’s dream. It’s the icing on the cake, especially when a lady spent the earlier years of her life looking forward to the day when she will own her own home, be a content and fulfilled wife and woman. The thrill is usually higher when the man is relatively settled – has a good job, a nice ride and apartment; the lady feels secure and with absolutely no worries on her mind. Shortly after...
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Ladies, if only you knew……

Ladies, if only you knew……

Thanks all for the responses you gave on my last article about sheep and shepherds (pastors and church members). I’ll like to, in this short article, address the ladies and not limit it to them and the Pastors alone. Babes and sisters, do you know why that Pastor, that choir master, head usher, protocol guy, fine christian guy is able to violate you? It’s because you’re ignorant and don’t know better...
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Is your pastor sleeping with your friend?

Is your pastor sleeping with your friend?

I find it very sad and disheartening, the rate at which i hear reported cases of Pastors who sleep with their female church members. It’s a scourge and a cancer that’s running so wild, i wonder how it became so bad so fast. I have heard of countless cases; let’s not check the gory details at all. What cases should we address? Is it the Pastor that mounts the pulpit to preach immediately after having sex...
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The Messiah Mentality

The Messiah Mentality

Today’s article is meant to address a male syndrome which i’ve decided to call the “Messiah Mentality”. Follow me as i create a scenario that captures in detail what this mentality looks like. Here it is: Some guys go into relationships with ladies because they believe they can help them. This happens a lot when the guys start out by helping out the lady, possibly when she’s going through an...
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Guyz, don’t make up to break up….

Guyz, don’t make up to break up….

Hallos my people, i trust we had a good weekend. I got quite a number of responses about my last article especially from guys who thanked me for telling the ladies the bitter truth, some even quoted specific people in their offices, family, church, etc; so, just before the guys think they have it all together, today i’ll be descending on them! Guys are a very interesting set of people. They’ve been taught to be...
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All the single ladies in the house….

All the single ladies in the house….

I started writing this article last week, then lost it; how painful! It’s taking a lot from me to have to put my thoughts together and write again, hoping this will be an opportunity to have a better article. This article is for or about the ladies….again! lol You know my heart goes out to you babes J It goes without saying that there are almost ten times more than the number of “ready to marry”...
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